I feel like you hate me because you never answer any of my questions even tho know one has ever asked them..

How can I hate you dear Anon when I don’t even know who you are?  🙂 

Just to give you an idea of what goes on behind the scenes for me here with E-C: I have 256 messages parked in my inbox presently and three new msgs just popped in while I’m answering this question of yours.

So, nothing personal. 🙂 

Was Dylan a sloopy dresser

Asks the ‘sloopy’ anon writer.. lol

Jeans and a t-shirt (wore his favorite t-shirts more than once a week), trenchcoat and combat boots and his B ballcap. I’d say pretty average stuff for a teenage dude with his established anti ‘uniform’ look. But perception is relative and to the preps that wore new designer label clothing weekly, they’d likely view him as ‘sloppy’. His long hair which was scraggly because it was curly and he let air dry on the way to school, could add to that notion about him that he wasn’t a ‘clean-cut’ kid.

I know I’m going to sound like the most skeptical person on the planet but do you think either Mike Judge or the person who supposedly wrote to him could be lying? It all just seems so romanticized.

It is a romantic story but within reason of a secret crush that could conceivably happen with a teenage girl.  I mean, after all, look at Dylan and secret pinnings for a crush in his writings including his love letter. Otoh, the girl could’ve read Dylan’s released writings and spun a fantasy to Mike Judge to vicariously add herself in connection with Dylan. But there is no proof to back it up, we’ve never seen this note that she allegedly put on his cross, so we’ll have to just take it with a grain of salt since we can only take ‘her’ word for it as told by Mike Judge. 

What about Game of Thrones? Pretty violent and raunchy, kinda seems like it would be up their alley, Eric especially

Probably, yes.  The violence, the battles complete with stratagem plus the debauched sex scenes would be a freebie perk for teenage dudes 😉  though definitely not something they’d feel comfortable watching around the parents. lol  Even if they hypothetically didn’t get into the series as teens they might’ve in their twenties on.

Do you think the boys would like Lord of The Rings? I know that Eric hated star wars but I have this impression that maybe he would like lotr

Nooooo. Too long, complex and boring. Too many “gay” dude friendships. Eric liked gun battles, war movies, and some sci-fi movies (not Star Wars wtf lol). Dylan might’ve seen the flick with other friends. I wouldn’t doubt it if he breezed through all the dang books in late elementary school or middle school.  But I don’t really think that genre was his thing, tbh.  He certainly wouldn’t discuss Tolkien around The Reb. This is my feeling about it, obviously.

I think the thing about Eric is that he didn’t want battles fought by magic or intangible, mythical faith-belief systems like Magic or The Force innately wielded by Wizards or Jedi.  He preferred gritty combat where humans relied on their own skills, abilities, and firepower.  Aliens is a good example of this with the Marines.

Hey do you know about the King Of The Hill Episode where a female at columbine wrote to one of the creators. “She credited the episode with helping her allow herself to grieve a friend of hers she was in love with and, during the shooting, decided to finally tell only to find out later that he was one of the shooters (because of this she had been pressured to repress her feelings).” Who do you think it could have been?

E-C Search “King of the Hill” or “Mike Judge” for multiple posts discussing this.

Did Dylan like shopping

What teenage boy doesn’t want to shop for stuff they’re interested in?  I’m sure he probably liked heading to the movie/video store. He’d make a B line for the record store at the mall to buy cds. That is, if he had enough spending cash left over.  If you’re asking if he was a mall dude, I’d say no.  Though he did hang out there occasionally with his dudes since Littleton didn’t provide a whole lot to do. But regular weekend shopping and mall hang-out excursion was likely not a thing for him.  I’m sure he was thrilled to have discovered Peer-to-Peer file sharing networks so that he could be that KeWL FiNe HaXoR and get his kicks illegally downloading a bunch of MP3 music, making it no longer necessary to save up for luxury purchases like cds. Then the spending cash could go to Rock n Bowl entertainment on the weekend. The dude had a tight budget especially while in between regular jobs. He lamented in his writings that he had no money. Fashion-wise, he was a simple guy and had a few pairs of jeans and his favorite t-shirts and cycled through those.  So, he liked shopping occasionally but he was no Mall Prep.

eric and dylan would’ve liked any girl of any race if they were good to them and made their interest evident tbh

That’s essentially what I’ve mentioned numerous times over the last four years over questions of race, height, weight, etc.  But they would have to get to know you as a person in order for them to not automatically label you as a part of a group they were prejudicially biased against as I mentioned here the other day. And I wouldn’t say “they were good to them” more like “they were just open, friendly and nice to them” then that would set the tone for them to treat the girl differently because they were getting positive attention by a female..of which they were sadly lacking. 😉  

Did Dylan ever yell at his parents

No, sadly not, I get the impression. Sue definitely does not seem to relay any incidences where Dyl yelled or swore at them. It seems unfathomable for a teenage boy to have never yelled or cussed at his parents at least a couple of times. She referred to him as ‘crabby’ which sounds like he mumbled back in response irritably in his disagreement to have the last word. But as far as full-on yelling, it does not sound like it. That boy had suppressed so much bottled up, unexpressed negative emotions in him. Devon said she felt he did not ever want to disappoint his parents and let them down. Dylan for the most part only showed the good, compliant and dutiful son all the way up to the end. He compartmentalized the “’acceptable” and the “unacceptable” sides of himself with his parents. He might be angry at them for something they’d asked of him but in the end he’d capitulate and just do it rather than putting his foot down, yelling and cussing at them and causing drama. I tend to think he just felt guilt about causing them any amount of grief at all – even though the anger was still in there somewhere, pushed down within him. Anger turned inward into lingering sadness and numb depression. His father relayed to Sue that Dylan was very angry about being caught and arrested for the van theft when they went for a walk together. But again, Dylan was directing his anger externally, at the authorities. His vitriol was never directed at his parents.