Hey lovely girl ❤️ I hope you have a great day today,tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and forever because you deserve the best 💕 Many blessings to you dear friend ☺️

Oh my, girly.. ☺️ you know.. I really did need this today.. 😔 Thank you for this pleasantly unexpected random act of kindness – so very sweet of you to think of me. ❤️I’m returning those positive blessings to you as well, my lovely new friend. 💞💫💞💫💞💫

Which rejection hurt Eric the most?

His critical nature and rejection of others causing others to reject him. Basically, this self fulfilling pattern amounts to a foundational rejection of himself, followed by an expectation that others will reject him and when he does crappy, annoying, mean, cold things he receive the rejection he subconsciously believes he deserves.

What rejection hurt him the most was himself..self rejection.

A lot of people have that problem – in which it seems they just keep shooting themselves in the foot.

It says Sasha Jacobs was 135lbs, How come Eric called her fat then in somebody’s year book

Where does it say Sasha weighed 135? Eric said she was “fat” in Chad Laughlin’s yearbook. Chad was the dude that set Sasha up with the boys (specifically Dylan first as Chad was closer to Dylan having been in the CHIPS gifted program together). Eric was bitter about their breaking up (which was probably initiated by Sasha) so he wrote some nasty comment about her being fat and whiny and that he went out with her because “he felt sorry for her, I guess”. I’m sure he was banking on her eventually seeing/signing Chad’s yearbook and so it was his passive-aggressive way of striking back at her. Does this mean she was actually, literally overweight or “fat” though? Nah. By the look of her broad face, you can tell she wasn’t a super thin girl or average build like a Brandi type. She looked a bit big boned (to me she looks Swedish) and so her weight was probably proportioned to her frame where she had maybe a few extra pounds but wasn’t overweight. Eric was just being nasty because she was done going out with him after about 20 dates and that must’ve stung like hell being dumped by A girl.

Dave Cullen is Dead Wrong

I’m not particularly a huge fan of Ralph Larkin’s book “Comprehending Columbine’ as he had some flaws in his own book but they were relatively minor. But he didn’t pull stuff out of his ass like Cullen. He makes many salient points about multiple flaws with Cullen’s book in the article below:

Dave Cullen is Dead Wrong

Posted on April 21, 2009 by templepress

Ralph W. Larkin, author of Comprehending Columbine, responds to Dave Cullen’s new book, Columbine

Dave Cullen’s book, Columbine, has been receiving a great deal of media coverage. For the most part, reviewers are accepting his explanations of the causes of the Columbine shootings as rooted in the psychopathology of the two shooters. The book contains numerous problems, the first of which is that Mr. Cullen goes well beyond the facts of the case to produce an almost novelistic approach to the shootings. He gives Eric Harris a sex life that that has no verification; he gives them emotions that are impossible to know; he attributes sophisticated knowledge of architecture to the two shooters in the placement of the bombs for which there is no evidence. Worst of all, he ignores an existing trail of evidence of rampant bullying at Columbine High School, eyewitness evidence of public humiliations of Klebold and Harris by members of the football team, and statements of the boys both before and during the assault of their intentions to target the so-called jocks. Their videotapes and their writings were obsessed with gaining retribution against jocks. Instead, Cullen, who was heavily influenced by FBI profiler Dwayne Fusilier, labeled Harris a “psychopath,” and Klebold “a depressive,” and attributed the shootings to their mental disorders. This is psychological reductionism at its worst, not to mention the fact that victims of bullies often experience depression.

People unfamiliar with the details of the Columbine massacre focus on the randomness of the shootings and Eric Harris’s rants on the Trenchcoat Mafia website that he created, suggesting that he hated everybody equally as evidence that the shootings were not about jocks or bullying. This is a mistake. First, the boys’ motives were complex. That they wanted to kill jocks is incontrovertibly true. They placed the bombs in the cafeteria not because their location would bring down the ceiling, as stated by Dave Cullen, but because they placed the bombs underneath the table where the jocks always sat. The fact that the bombs did not go off saved a large portion of the football team. Second, as local and FBI investigators pointed out, one reason for carrying out the massacre was to become media celebrities and, as Eric Harris said in the basement tapes, to “kickstart a revolution” of oppressed students like himself. Third, the boys were heavily influenced by paramilitary and gun cultures, which stress dying in a blaze of glory, which they certainly seem to have done. Fourth, and ignored by many investigators, was the fact that Klebold and Harris also hated evangelical Christian students attending Columbine High School who constituted themselves as a moral elite and who went around telling outcast students that if they did not change their ways, accept Jesus as their Savior, and become born again, they would burn in hell.

Jocks and evangelical Christians were their particular hatreds. However, they hated the whole system of social relations at Columbine High School in which they were despised, defined as lesser humans, and subjected to predatory actions. The attitude of a large portion of Columbine students was that because they dressed differently, did not have sufficient school spirit, and acted differently than their peers, they deserved what they received at the hands of the jocks, who regarded themselves as the defenders of the hypermasculine norms of the school.

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Dave Cullen is Dead Wrong

When Brooks said D&E were really awkward, what do you think he meant by that?

He meant that they were socially awkward around people..not knowing what to say, especially around girls, or having a tough time of it. He also probably meant that they came across weak, dorky, shy and not strong and bad ass like the tough guy characters they try to fantasy portray themselves as for video productions.  Of course, he’s one to talk as Brooks spent a lot of time exaggerating, lying and making up shit in high school to make himself seem “cooler”.  So, in the end, he’s no better than they were.  He just has the edge of being alive now and can shit talk them any time he’d please to feel better about himself..

I read a report that said, “Harris, who conceived the attacks, was more than just disturbed. He was, psychologists now say, a cold-blooded predator psychopath-a smart and charming liar with” a ridiculously large complex of Superiority, repulsion for authority, and a great need for control, “as Cullen wrote. Is this really correct?

Is Cullen correct about Harris?  The answer is no, he is not correct.  

Cullen is pretty much never correct about Eric or either of the boys for that matter. Cullen is not even a professional psych and his armchair psychology of Eric is abysmally simplistic. He authored a book that he largely never interviewed friends and acquaintances that actually knew Eric. A few students from Columbine read Cullen’s book when it came out in 2009 and even said it was flawed, including Brooks Brown, a student who was pretty good friends with the shooters said “A great deal of misinformation – I responded to the top post in length, but the short version is that Cullen claims I didn’t experience what I (and tons of other students at that school) experienced. He’s going against medical records, police reports, FBI findings and more. So…take it with a grain of salt?

as well as Anne Marie Hochhalter who suffered permanent injuries from the massacre and is wheelchair bound.  She said in this article:  “I was injured at Columbine, and Dave Cullen’s book is inaccurate and sensationalized.”

Basically, the rule of thumb here is that Cullen has a really off target theory about Eric and also the dynamic between Eric and Dylan. That is the biggest problem with his book and given that Columbine is all about these two boys, it’s quite problematic.  It’s like the Elephant in the room when you try to read the book.  A lot of his book is just him winging his theories and generating misinformation in a almost propaganda-like fashion for the masses. You get the strong impression that Cullen has a massive ego and wants to be The End-all-Be-All Go To authority on Columbine an expects everyone to just buy his word as the definitive end-of-story answer to why Columbine happened. The book basically reads like fictionalized fact. Another major problem with Cullen’s ‘take’ is that he downplays bullying as playing a significant motivating role in the Columbine massacre.  

 I would encourage you to start exploring the Dave Cullen tag of E-C to catch yourself up on how, very off the mark Cullen.

I would also encourage you to check out some of my book recs with authors that give a very accurate take on the boys and the massacre.  Brooks Brown’s book is a high recommendation as he knew Eric first hand.

Can you tell me about the psychological state of Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris in more detail? pleaaaase! ♥️

The psychological state of Dylan (and occasionally Eric) is pretty much written all over this blog. Don’t tell me you have an essay due or something like that? 😉 No offense here, but that’s a huge question. ‘Psychological state’ when? Their entire life?  before or during the massacre, or all of the above?   I would encourage you to poke around on this blog and use the search feature. Or you can be a bit more specific with your question..  If you’re newish to Columbine and trying to get a good sense of the shooters psychological makeup, I’d recommend searching ‘books’ for some titles I recommend checking out. 🙂 ❤

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‘’People ask all the time why Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold did what they did on April 20, 1999. I believe it was a hopelessness. They saw no real future for themselves, and no acceptance from those around them. They became self-hating. Then they started to hate those around them. Then they became angry, and then they became violent.  Finally, in one insane, twisted moment, they believed they had power over a world that had kept them down.’’

–Brooks Brown, No Easy Answers

This^^

Hi pretty! I really think we all infinitely appreciate what you do, I was wondering if maybe you knew of some blog that has as much information of Eric as this one of Dylan … Thanks

rebsmommy:

everlasting-contrast:

Aww, gee thankss.. ☺️💕I would recommend the lovely @rebsmommy 💓 for all your Eric-centric needs. 😏

Thank you so much for this Miss E ❤️❤️❤️ And we all know you are one of a kind in the tcc , always the most accurate information , always the kindest, most patient , dedicated and loveliest. Coming from you THAT means so much to me , as you can never imagine. Thank you 💕

TY

do you have a snapchat bc I totally wanna be friends (: and do you follow me bc i always see you like and comment on my posts, but idk if you do or not ❤️

Aww, that’s very sweet of you to ask ❤️ and I’m flattered! Yes, I do have one but I’m kind of keeping it for personal stuff with close friends and family.. at least for now. We can still be friends here on Tumblr though. Feel free to PM me anytime. 👌🏻🙂