Tag: Anonymous

Dylan seems to have believed in heaven and hell. Do you think that he believed he was going to go to heaven after NBK??

He believed he was going to a heaven of his own thought-creation called the Halcyons.   Basically, Dylan invented a ‘Heaven’ of his own making in the great beyond with his thoughts and imagination in which he would ‘float away’ to once he’d physically left the earth plane.  The actual dictionary definition of the world ‘Halcyon’ denotes an idyllically time of happiness, peace, tranquility, and calm.  If Dylan believed in the concept of Heaven and Hell, then this was Hell, here on earth, and the Halcyons was Heaven.  He remembersed how effortless and indescribably blissful it was when he’d existed there before..in comparison to how difficult and arduous it feels down here in this particular existence.

If there was a gal who was into status, clothing, etc. You know all the things they thought were mindless zombie like but was also open-minded and accepting towards them do you think they would have have given her a chance?

I’m sorry, I just can’t answer these hypothetical kinds of questions as to whether they’d give a specific type of girl “a chance”.  First off, they were hardly in any position to be super picky about women.  And besides of which, shouldn’t we be asking whether the girl would have given them the chance rather than the other way around?  Seems kind of grovelly that we have to question whether certain sorts of girls would measure up to their standards, ya know?  😉 

I wish that I could say I have grown in some positive way researching the case, but I don’t think it’s provided me with the same benefit it seems to have for you and others in the community. I wish you and your readers all the best — lots of light, love, and happiness. Blessed be 💙

Sounds like you need a break.:)  But I think you have the mistaken impression that it’s all been positive and beneficial for me as well as some others. And that is certainly just not the case at all. There has been much upheaval for me personally as far as laying bear much-suppressed emotions.  I think it’s safe to say that I have undergone a metamorphosis and I am no longer the same person I once was in having more awareness. Delving into this case, realizing why you’re drawn to the boys and seeing them reflected back in the mirror where you stand,  is a dark journey but an important one. Understanding that you could be them – save for but one choice. It’s complicated stuff both heady and darkly depressing at times.  But, instead of hovering around the boys’ negative, low-level mode of thinking as if a moth to the flame, you need to pull yourself up from going undertow so that you’re not becoming them but learning from them. You decide not to repeat their negative pattern.  Instead, you voluntarily choose to make better choices for yourself in this existence.  You do it for yourself as you would do it for them..because, well, they are you and you are them. 🙂  Choosing to treat others with less judgment and more kindness because you understand full-well that everyone is fighting their own battles. And when you reach the point, you can begin to not live Columbine but instead, transcend it and reach a perspective of turning the darkness of this tragedy into light and love.  But like I say, in visiting the Columbine tragedy case, you often need to tke many breaks to distance yourself so that you do not lose perspective or be neglectful of actually living your own life.   Anyway, I’ll stop.. as I didn’t intend for this to turn into some kind of lecture. lol  Thank you for the ❤ and I wish you light, love, happiness, and healing in return!  Blessed Be! ❤

The amount of hate the harris’ get is a little too much considering they lost their son and not talking about him, etc. can be their form of coping

Maybe so..but the mixed reaction regarding the Harris family is what it is as a result of them deciding to go ghost for over 19 years.  That’s the price you pay for total and complete privacy. People are always going to wonder where you’re coming from, how you felt about your son, etc.  I can understand taking 5-10 years to cope and process the grief.  But I’m skeptical that two decades on that ‘quietly coping’ is an easy crutch of an excuse that continues to allow them to circumvent accountability and responsibility altogether.